Re: Why Won't She Divorce Me rjack0612: Because of my son, I was trying to do this a peaceful as possible. Obviously, I have my bases covered. I have quite a video collection of her and the OM PRIOR to her leaving. She left when she was caught and I confronted the two of them. She then filed a phony police report saying that she was in fear of her life. (LOL) I then told her it was over and I wanted a divorce. She readily agreed (if I filed No0Fault) and then never showed up. She wanted to take things one day at a time. She needed to focus on her!! (LOL) I klet it go because she has now past the expiration point of alimony. We both moved from an alimony state to a non-alimony stae so now I am in the clear for that.
Re: Why Won't She Divorce Me Lumpy: [quote author=rjack0612 link=topic=24028.msg224642#msg224642 date=1137180755">
Because of my son, I was trying to do this a peaceful as possible. Obviously, I have my bases covered. I have quite a video collection of her and the OM PRIOR to her leaving. She left when she was caught and I confronted the two of them. She then filed a phony police report saying that she was in fear of her life. (LOL) I then told her it was over and I wanted a divorce. She readily agreed (if I filed No0Fault) and then never showed up. She wanted to take things one day at a time. She needed to focus on her!! (LOL) I klet it go because she has now past the expiration point of alimony. We both moved from an alimony state to a non-alimony stae so now I am in the clear for that.
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Push it through. Whether she shows up or not. How is that being unpeaceable? Does she expect you to give her a ride to the courthouse? Now's the time to do things for yourself. It's good to keep the peace for the munchkins' sake but to what degree? Maybe you consider her too much...
Re: Why Won't She Divorce Me ajw: maybe you should contact the OM and ask him why his girlfriend wont divorce you......its bound to irk him some too.......lol
Re: Why Won't She Divorce Me Lumpy: [quote author=ajw link=topic=24028.msg224659#msg224659 date=1137182387">
maybe you should contact the OM and ask him why his girlfriend wont divorce you......its bound to irk him some too.......lol
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Goddammit I like it!
Re: Why Won't She Divorce Me dontgetit: Why do you care it is peaceful........Did she think about you when she was "boinking" the OM - I think not.....
If you want a divorce then just go do it - forget what she might do (she will probably do nothing)....
If custody is an issue let the courts figure it out - you are the childs father and you have rights....
I am just not sure that there can be such a thing as a peaceful divorce - it is such an emotional experience that most people become polorized....
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