Re: Helping with guilt whatnext: SHEY!!!!
Something in my gut says you're right! I was wondering about the clinging and the sexual taboo breaking, and thought it was the guilt.
OF COURSE IT IS GUILT, but it is MISPLACED!
Re: Helping with guilt frontier74: You know... after reading through the post again, I'm leaning toward sheyd's assessment. If he had enough control of his mental faculties to worry about calling ahead, then he certainly had enough mental ability to know exactly what he was doing with andya's wife. Yep, took me awhile to see it, but I think his wife was raped.
Re: Helping with guilt snkpack5: And if you wanna involve the guy in this at all, I would suggest kicking his ever loving sorry *ss!!!!!
Just kidding. We're not supposed to advocate violence. ;)
Re: Helping with guilt tracy: Hi, I just thought I'd mention to you I did the same thing to my husband and he left me. I am feeling like this is his way to punish me. I believe he wants to come home, but he says he has to get over this and he couldn't do it with me. Read my story, I think it will interest you. Sorry, for you pain and I hope everything works out for you two. My story is under . wanting someone that doesn't want you.
Good luck!
Re: Helping with guilt cmeinred: I say get as far from her as possible. Do all you can from your daughter and make her happy. Your wife may be going through some sort of phase. Find yourself someone else. If she felt herself changing (things she wouldn't ordinarily do) she could have let you in on it before hand about her wishes. Communication is important in a marriage. Get on with your life you'll be alot happier trust me.
