Dreams NeverEver: Ok, i posted my story a week ago, I was the 25 years old chinese boy who got a white finnish girl, and she broke up with me after 2 month, she was the first girl i ever loved and
so on....
At the begining of this week i joined a gym, i started to work out, and started to concentrate on myself, i felt really good the whole week.
But, I have a problem, I can't stop thinking of her, i keep stare at her pictures in my laptop, i keep thinking the time we spent toghether, and the biggest problem is i keep having dreams about her EVERY night, and i wake early and feel really lonely and lilltle depressed. Last saturday, i got wasted with some friends and i called her 3 oclock in the morning(i didnt remember doing it, i found out the next morning from my cellphone......), but she didnt answer.
People from this BBS have been really nice and helpful, so give me some advices to get through this, I dont wanna think about her anymore, its hurting me. Cus the more i think the more i believe that she was just using me as a rebound from her ex, when i deeply belived everything she said and fall hopelessly in love with her...........
Re: Dreams 21218: delete the pictures
throw away the rest of the stuff
delete her number off your phone
Re: Dreams snkpack5: First off NeverEver you have to stop feeling guilt over having these thoughts. WE HAVE ALL GONE THROUGH THIS. You are just torturing yourself by keeping reminders of her in your home. I would highly recommend getting rid of everything that reminds you of her.
And keep your chin up. Really, the only thing that will make the pain fade is time. . .
