Sadly I have learned Mystic Rain: That cheating on someone isn't something you do manipulatively all the time. There are circumstances, when someone is just pushed so far off the ledge where they have to find someone, otherwise they will kill themselves mentally continuing the relationship they currently have.
Sometimes it's just easier to do this.
I have not been cheated on, but right now, I am on the verge of cheating on him - i havent found anyone - but I am soo emotionally tired, of trying to fix this relationship, that this seems the only way for me to be happy for a little bit.
Help someone.
I cant leave, I dont want to leave, we're too intertwined in every aspect.
Re: Sadly I have learned Older Guy: [quote author=Mystic Rain link=topic=24081.msg224945#msg224945 date=1137251333">
i havent found anyone[/quote">
this might sound cliche...but maybe you just need to spend some time finding "yourself" ?
I've never seen cheating as a valid option.
Good luck......OG
Re: Sadly I have learned PiscesGoddess: Oh honey.. Im glad to see you back..but hate that you are going through hell with this relationship again. Cheating isnt gonna help sweetie..It will just cause even more damage to an already damaged relationship. I know you guys arent married and all..but remember when you thought he was cheating on you? How awful that was? If you need a way out..just get out..but dont do it by throwing a hangranade in the middle and blowing it all to hell...
Take some time away from all of it..and reevaluate what you want...Have an affair with yourself..learn about you..see what makes YOU happy.. putting another person into it..even just for a one night stand..is going to make you feel worse..not happier :-\
Just my 2 cents hon,
Pisces
Re: Sadly I have learned twobeautifulkids: Something I always told my ex was that if I ever felt like I might cheat I'd leave him first. If the relationship is that bad that you want to cheat, fix it or get out of it, but don't cheat please.
Re: Sadly I have learned Trying2Hope: Bullsh!t.
Break up before you bonk someone else.
I repeat ... bullshit. You're lying to yourself.
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