Re: Sadly I have learned smokin: haha. i agree with batman for the first time :D lol
cheating gets you nothing, except the cheating ho award. cheaters sux, should all be killed by butter knife, and some fly spray.......
dont do it, youll regret it. leave and divorce first. then you cant be called easy............
hang in and leave or work on it, but do not cheat
Re: Sadly I have learned snkpack5: Please stop and consider what you're saying for a minute. You're saying you don't want the relationship to end, but you are considering cheating as an option to cope with the problems you're having? Cheating will only lead to one of two things (1) the relationship will end or (2) MORE PROBLEMS.
You need to tell him how you feel and make a decision one way or the other. Are you going to stay and try and work it out or are you willing to lose it all for one night with some random guy. . . .
Please don't do it. You might be under the allusion it will make you feel better about something, but I'd say its 99% guaranteed to make you feel like sh*t.
Re: Sadly I have learned jadedangel: [color=navy"> I think the last three posts ... pretty much sum it up. Truly think about what SNK said ... holy cow --- you don't want to leave but your willing to go ahead and f-ck someone else for hell's sake? Sorry but --- to cheat .. you will have to be manipulative --- don't try to fool yourself there is no other way out.
If the relationship is mentally killing you --- you need to leave it before you make it worse.[/color">
Re: Sadly I have learned jillieb44: This was the point in my 14.5 year marriage that I realized that it was truly over with me and my ex. We'd been living like nothing more than antagonisitic roommates for nearly a decade, and trying to fix things didn't work at all.
So I had 'the talk' about how things weren't working, made one last ditch effort to fix things, obvious he wasn't interested after a few months, gave the separation talk, and that was it.
Haven't found a new SO, no regrets about leaving the ex, but am much happier. I'm exhausted, but financially better off, and emotionally happier.
The others are right. Fix it. Or if it's not working, get out. Not worth it for your emotional self to stay in a bad relationship. Your needs arent' being met (neither are his, I'd bet), and if you can't fix things with him, leave.
Cheating is never justified, IMO.
Jillie
Re: Sadly I have learned Mystic Rain: you people can stop you damn hate msgs, i have been on this website before and for those of you who know me, I am not a cheater,
I have been cheated on, and now he dumps me for not trusting him.
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