Re: Sadness PickingUpThePieces: Thanks for all of your replies and support. :) I am feeling better than 2 days ago, although I have been thinking about him a lot and am back to dreaming about him.
Goose - You're welcome to laugh at my stbx! :)
Poppy - it almost was harder seeing the dog than him, even though the dog was "his" first, the dog always loved me unconditionally. He was my baby. I didn't even get to see the rabbits...I am assuming he gave them away. Probably better for them to be in a home where they will be given attention...
JA - You're right, I do need the time to grieve. I think sometimes the people around us forget it's not a linear process, and while most of the time I feel "ok" there are just times when it all hits me, and the only way to get through it and come out on the other side is to feel it, and not push it away.
jna - You know talking to/seeing him does only bring more hurt and pain. I'm glad I got the rest of my things so that I can go back to no contact...