Re: Pause for consideration? bug: She was talking to the exBF about him going to Vegas?
Re: Pause for consideration? Peaceandquiet: Sorry Sooty but that just pisses me off, I know right now you are trying to salvage the marriage and being the nice guy. I was there once to, trying to understand and watching the phone calls. After several months I looked back at it and wished I had buried her when I had that chance. I was more mad at myself later on about not taking all the steps I should have to protect myself, then the fact that she was cheating. I don't want to see that happen to you. If you took her to Vegas I'd be willing to bet anything that you would be sitting in a room by yourself while she was somewhere with him. Don't do it. She's lying to you now, it sounds like it is only going to get worse.
Re: Pause for consideration? Sooty: The previous night she was talking to the xBF about going to vegas with him.
About 3 mos ago, we had planned to go to vegas this weekend, bought tickets, going to see INXS. Last night, she said she wanted to go to the concert, and I told her not unless we made it a couples weekend, and worked on us first, then concert would be second. She responded with "I don't know how the weekend would turn out". Although tomorrow would be are first joint therapy (I've been going solo for awhile trying to figure out wth I should do), I told her I would talk about it there.
We also have a 8-day cruise paid for in 2 weeks. NOT that I'm going.
Re: Pause for consideration? jadedangel: [color=navy"> Well .. I think it is absolutely evident ... she has no intention of working on you two as a couple ....
I wouldn't go to Vegas .. and I wouldn't do the cruise. She is playing you for everything she can ... don't let her. [/color">
Re: Pause for consideration? Sooty:
Thanks everyone. I'm going to give it one last consideration tomorrow during the appointment. I owe it to myself to atleast go and see what/if anything can be done.
But your right, Vegas. Not an option.
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