Re: Just starting to hurt???? JNA: Quote: noone can understand why I am in pain now almost a year later.
It was over a year for me and I woke up one day a few months back and it was like a flashback or something...
I hurt again for a week or so. I am not sure why other than it fades in and out for a time
From a mans point of view lt me say something about the Cards ok...
I was once married to and my ex-wife had a bad habit of spending WAYYYYYY too much money on credit cards
There were some discussions about it and it went in one ear and out the other...
Finally I just accepted as it is just her and one of her faults...
I mean it is not like I had none...
It's called "Love" when you can live with the other persons faults
BTW the CC's had nothing to do with our divorce
I guess the point I am trying to drive home is its not all your fault so stop thinking it is...
As far as the losing everything...BTDT so I know how you feel to some degree
I lost my first business and it was quite costly to say the least...
But I came back and am doing better than I ever did before
YOU WILL TOO...IMO
Stay Strong
JNA
Just take one day at a time and everything will fall right into place faster than you know it
