spoke to latest ow today jojo: Well it started yesterday.........
I have to see the latest (although its now over) OW every day as her daughter is in my sons class at school (yep go figure).so I was coming out after dropping my daughter at nursery and she was running down with her daughter as they were late, I smiled at her daughter as I know her and the OW smiled at me.......well how she didnt turn to stone with the scowling evil look I gave her I dont know.....As soon as I had done it I felt bad.....so........
Today I approached her my stomach was in my throat...
Me: Excuse me can I just have a quick word..
Her: (stunned silence and face full of alarm)......erm
Me: Yesterday you ran past me and smiled and I gave you a bad look
Her: Erm I didnt notice
Me: (thinking yeh right you didnt...us both knowing she soooo did) Well you may have guessed now that I am Michaels wife and I will apologise for the horrible look I gave you, the reason I did it was because you slept with my husband I know what happened between you both, I knew at the time it was happening and I know all about it now and its hurts me..I dont know what bullshit story he gave you about us being apart but we werent we were trying to work things out..
Her: (shamefaced and thinking oohh shit) I er...............(cut off by....)
Me: I know its not all your fault and I really don't want an atmosphere for the next ten years our children are in the same school, You're not the only one don't worry there is another one who stands at that gate...so if some mornings I happen to look at you funny its cos its hard ok..
Her: He never told me that I'm so sorry (touching my arm)I really am, I'm so sorry it was very shortlived..
Me: well you were lucky I had seven years of his shit..
I think I did very well. It made me feel a little better and now I've lulled her into a false sense of security tomorrow I'm going to rip her head off hahah only joking...
Re: spoke to latest ow today brokenbaby: kudos to you! I dont know if I would have been so composed or able to do what you did.
I hope it helps you move forward.
Re: spoke to latest ow today dragonfly: Holy cow...can I just give you a standing ovation!
I could have never done that...the one and only time I was ever in the OW's presence after finding out about the affair (she was a friend of mine), it took all I had to ignore her and not jump her, kick her, break every bone in her body and just basically rip her to pieces. I did pretty well with the pretending she wasn't even there...but inside I was ready to snap her neck.
So again...thunderous applause to your composure and keeping the upper hand/higher ground. :D
Re: spoke to latest ow today jojo: thank you dragonfly, I humbly accept your thunderous applause........ ;)
Re: spoke to latest ow today dragonfly: You know Jojo...
Sometimes I run through our encounter over in my mind and come up with all kinds of "wonderful" comments and conversation topics...but honestly, I think if I ever see her again...now that she's not pregnant...I'd just slap the sh!i eating grin off her face for good.
Hey...I'm not angry...
hehehe - NOT
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