Re: LOOKS catherine: My ex felt the same way... all throughout our relationship (8 1/2 years) up until he became a police officer a little over 2 years ago, he had always told me how fortunate he felt that someone so beautiful could be in love with him.
. . . I can still hear his voice in my head when he would address me as "Hey Gorgeous".
Unbeknownst to me that obviously all changed once he became a police officer and realized that there was a smorgasbord of women out there that found him instantly 10 times more handsome once he put on the uniform. I had always been attracted to him, but will admit he became even more attractive once he became a cop. However for me it had nothing to do with the uniform so much as it was the increase in his confidence. He had always been a bit insecure and it may be that he was able to hide it well behind the uniform… I have no way of knowing. It could also be that I am incredibly off base as I do find myself idealizing him to a great degree in which he is completely undeserving. It may also very well be that I am the one that is insecure and questions whether or not I will find someone as equally, if not more, attractive.
Re: LOOKS jadedangel: [quote author=tweety link=topic=24570.msg231167#msg231167 date=1138202383">
I'm kind of surprised to see that no women have responded to this thread....hmmm.
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[color=navy"> Reason I hadn't responded is because well ... I wouldn't agree ... didn't know if I should really say much but ...
For me physical appearance is one of the things I don't worry about I guess ... call it because I am female .. call it because I don't think I am a beauty queen myself ... I don't know -- part of it lies in my experience.
I have dated -- both "fair" looking people and "gorgeous" people ... and will I tell you though I thought S was the greatest looking guy I ever dated what I got for physical appearance never outweighed what C (my current ex if you call it that) .. was able to do for me on so many levels. I'm not saying my ex is 'ugly' by any means ... I absolutely found him attractive -- but he was no runway model like S. See .. I am rambling -- all I know was .. if I would of got worried about 'looks' ... I would of missed out on the love of my life. [/color">
Re: LOOKS Irony:
yeah steve.. that was my stbxw.. all systems go...
part of me is still wondering what the f happened.
Re: LOOKS smokin: reminds me of this story.
a guy was late for work one morning. he was going across a bridge. a cop stopped him.
cop: you know why i stopped you?
guy: yes, i was speeding
cop: why were you speeding.
guy: i was late for work
cop: what is so important of a job that you speed to get there?
guy: im a rectum stretcher
pig: whats a rectum stretcher?
guy: well, you put 1 finger in, till you can get 2 ,then 3 till you get your whole hand in. then put other hand in and stretch it till its 6 foot.....
pig: what the he!l would you do with a 6 foot azzhole?
guy: SLAP A BADGE ON HIM, AND SET HIM NEAR A BRIDGE!!!!
Re: LOOKS bluskygrl: I have to agree with Jaded
By the end of our marriage his inside had becomes so unhealthy and unattractive that I could no longer see that good looking guy I had married. I think that happens more often for women than men. I do think it makes it easier. The "missiles" are more easily misguided when focusing on looks ::)
Imho, I think sexy is an attitude as much as it is a look. My sexy is currently broke, but I have it in the shop :)
Don't sell yourself short guys. For example, I think the guy in King of Queens is strangely adorable...the look is hot in its own way when packaged with a fun attitude.
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