The Ex And This Want sadgirl951: I have not been on this great site in a long time because of some very difficult family situations. They are all out of the hospital now but I feel so down. These recent events drained me. In times like this, I always had my ex for support to fall back on. I have my friends and other family members but it's just not the same. Even now when we are not on speaking terms, I still want to pick up the phone and call my ex. Just to hear him say that it's going to be okay. I hate that. I hate wanting him. How does anyone get rid of that want in such troubling times?
Please, anyone, any advice?
Re: The Ex And This Want imisshim: :'( I feel this way also for my ex.... i hate wanting him.. i hate fact that he doesnt call.. i hate the fact that he says he cares but then i dont see that he does.....
i just hate the fact that i cant HATE HIM no matter what he does...
i'm sorry for this honey...
no advice here... just understanding... :'(
Re: The Ex And This Want sadgirl951: I actually do hate my ex though. He really did me wrong. I hate that I need him in times like this. I have my friends though. Their shoulder to cry on is a lot better than his. A lot stronger too.
I guess I gave myself advice. ???
Re: The Ex And This Want imisshim: lol i guess so....
maybe i need to take advice from you and learning to hate...
i mean i think about all the shit he's done to me and i'm like.. HOLY CRAP TASH!!! HATE HIM!!!!
but i cant
i just cant
i love him....
through all of this i still love him
god i feel like an idiot
Re: The Ex And This Want sadgirl951: Your not an idiot. Don't say that. I think that having this want or need for the ex in certain situations is healthy. I realize that. I also realize that I should just let go of that. It's just so hard though. But I understand you still loving him. Somewhere in my heart I use to feel that way. Slowly it drifts away. I think we all just need time. Time to breathe. Time to cry. Time for yourself.
