he surrounds me imisshim: ok my stbxh's family is huge... he has like 13 cousins and crap.... anyway everywhere i go i see someone that is related to him and they just look at me... and walk away... OMG i didn't do anything wrong here he did!!!
i still love him!!!
cant they just be sad for me... they are suppost to love me too you know!!!!
i mean i hear a song on the radio with his name on it.. i am still in our house so i see things we did together... put in the floor... tiled the bathroom...
sleep in our BIG OL F**king bed!!!!
and i dont think anything reminds him of me...
how come he gets off so easy!!!!!!
*crosses arms and cries*
Re: he surrounds me JNA: Guilty people tell things that aren't true...
Meaning lord knows what he has told them about the breakup...
You can bet it's nothing to make him look bad
At least it is what I have seen in most cases...
Just my opinion
Sorry all of them are giving you the cold shoulder I had it done to me a short time ago...
JNA
Re: he surrounds me imisshim: yea there was one of his uncles that told my dad that steve left me because i gripped to much...
and my dad like totally hit the fan and was like.. well if he hadn't cheated i'm sure she wouldn't have gripped
and when i asked him about it he goes tash.. all i've told people is that we just couldn't make it work and i left...
and i'm like SURE!!!
OF course you didn't tell them you slept with someone else!
wtf!
Re: he surrounds me kev: Imisshim, sorry to see you here.
I wouldn't worry too much about his family or what they think. You be YOU, and realize that you weren't given a choice in this. He left you after he made the decision to cheat. You can call it griping, I say it is making the bastard face up to the truth.
He wasn't honest with you by cheating on you, now he can't be honest with his family...that shows his character.
You will move and on start getting over this, it does take awhile. And it can be painful. But every day is a new day, you are going to be fine.
If his family won't talk to you or acknowledge you, well then that shows character flaws in the whole damn family. and the fact that one of his uncles is gossiping with your dad??? Good lord, get a life people. Mind your own business is what I say.
Hang in there. ;)
Re: he surrounds me TAKEN4RIDE: Unfortunitly it goes with th territory
MSTBXW's family does not even look, or speak to me when we come in contact. they can all kiss my a$$!!!! :o ;D
