Re: How do you .. yella: No flames coming from me... you're right! ;)
Re: How do you .. Peaceandquiet: All I was saying is some people hadle the situations better if there mad or they can be angry at that person (sound familar) that being said I think afterwards the anger wears off and your still left with the emotion. So no contact.
Re: How do you .. yella: HA HA! Different situations, Baby! ;) :-*
You're so cute when you fight back!
In this case, she keeps getting pulled back into someone who keeps pushing her back away. She needs to get away from that because it's like emotional poison.
Re: How do you .. jadedangel: [quote author=Peaceandquiet link=topic=24578.msg231280#msg231280 date=1138210783">
All I was saying is some people hadle the situations better if there mad or they can be angry at that person (sound familar) that being said I think afterwards the anger wears off and your still left with the emotion. So no contact.
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[color=navy"> I absoluely agree with this ....
I KNOW this is a component that I am missing .. that I have to have to get over my ex. It is how I am. I cannot be mad at him ... I can't fault him ... I can't blame him .... whether I am wrong or not ... I can't. I did right at first ... and if I had found Ojar in those months I think I would be commendably different now -- but I didn't ... he got me over that ... and so now I still sit here ...
But it's not even just my ex ... sometimes it's other people ... I put alot of false hope into them ... thinking ... oh people say this and that ---- then I find out I am wrong ... again ... sends me back into my knowing my ex was a wonderful person state... great cycle ... love it.[/color">
Re: How do you .. yella: OMFG!!! I say what PQ said and you quote him!? Oh, I'm so hurt!!!
I know the cycle you're talking about and that's why stopping contact with him is what will help break this cycle.
You have to start somewhere, and this is it.
Break the habit!
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