What the hell does she expect??? doseyclwn: Just came from my house, where my stbx came over to "visit" her kids (no bitterness there at all, btw). She does this twice a week, and takes them one day a week overnight (when she has time). Now, it's only been 2 1/2 weeks, but she acts all like this should be fine. She's so g--d--n nonchalant about this crap, I think she actually expects me to do the same. She doesn't get it that I can't be around her that much without trying to talk to her about "it". I did better today. I didn't try to talk her into coming back, I just told her that it was real uncomfortable to be around her and not be able to talk about reconciliation.
F*&k, f*%k, f*$kety f*&k.
Re: What the hell does she expect??? JNA: As hard as it may seem maybe you should set a bounderie for her not to cross and hold firm on that...
It was tough for me to do that but it worked
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: What the hell does she expect??? doseyclwn: Well, I am supposed to be talking to a lawyer soon (though she doesn't know this yet) and we are supposed to see our therapist thurs to work out a better schedule for the kids. I'm thinking of making it formal. I mean, if she wants to leave, there are consequences. She doesn't get to pretend like nothing is wrong, ya know?
