Re: Still Feel That I Have To Confront The OM; Did He Take My Dignity? 21218: yea ... there's no way to get absolute closure on this issue. i confronted the other guys, I confronted her ... all I got was more heartache or lies.
it's an illusion. you're chasing something that doesn't exist. it hurts and it's raw but all that you're going to do is pour more salt on the wound.
people tell me I should just "get over it" ... for me, it was a two year relationship and it's been about a month since I finally realized it was completely over. i now understand that that's not going to happen. the only way I will ever be completely happy and over it is to be with someone that loves me that I love, and it's a healthy, equal relationship. i don't know what your thing is ... but rather than dwell on the past so much as to consider tracking these people down ... write about it, think about it ... write on here, smoke a CIGARETTE ;) ... think about it when you take a shower.
but most importantly, start moving on. start trying a little bit every day to break the addicition you have to her.
