Re: A Letter to my ex-Mother-In_law audi_driver: I'm so sorry sosad05......
My in-laws are the same way now. They dont even speak to me. I said hi to them and they didn't even look at me. I can't understand how they would not want to talk to me. They obviously dont know what their daugher did to our family. I wont tell them and I'm sure she didn't say that she was cheating for 9 months.
Stay strong..........One door closes......Another on opens.
Re: A Letter to my ex-Mother-In_law wendieann: Well, my turn
To my Xmil...
You were one of my dearest friends. You held my hands so many times when I cried, frustrated and upset that my marriage was falling apart... I couldn't make my husband/your son, to see what he was doing.
I miss living so close to you, that I would walk the babies over for a visit. You were my only friend. My world revolved around my husband until I snapped.
I told you of his affair, and you cried to me about "you don't agree with your son, but he is your son"
What shocks me the most is you disowned my boys. The ones you considered your grandchildren...not by blood but by love.
You never came and helped me when I was alone with a 6 week old baby, and a 1 yr old...
You stopped loving me, for no reason.
I know you welcomed the affair into your home. Helped introduce her shortly after with a family Xmas supper. It was my year for that supper, and the OW took it over.
I do miss you. I wish things could be different. However, life goes on.
Goodbye
Re: A Letter to my ex-Mother-In_law sosad05: Wendie....I hurt for you. Its amazing. I was in this woman's life for 14 years. She knew of all the problems I had with her son and acted so supportive of me.
To this day, the woman still wont eve come outside when I drop the kids at HER house. She will die hating me. It's sad she cant think back to her own life when she divorced J's dad. At least I dont have a different drunken man passed out on my couch every night in front of my kids like she did. Or...having my 14-yr-old son drive me home because I'm too drunk to drive.
But, ofcourse we've forgotten about that now.
Re: A Letter to my ex-Mother-In_law e-blogger: I came to the conclusion that it's not really us. It's just that no one is perfect for their sons. Not only that, but it really poses a conflict of interest for the inlaws to take our sides - even if they know that their precious sons are wrong.
Re: A Letter to my ex-Mother-In_law wendieann: [quote author=e-blogger link=topic=25052.msg310146#msg310146 date=1152151825">
I came to the conclusion that it's not really us. It's just that no one is perfect for their sons. [/quote">
True but they are also disowning their grandchildren who are innocent in all this. :(
All I know is my Xmil, my Xh, missed out on my childrens life. My daughters first smile, her first steps, the first time she used a spoon. They missed out on her first real laugh. Her first Halloween, Christmas and birthday. All the firsts I shared alone. I did send them pictures.... :P
