What the H@#)(*$& 4sarah: Okay I'm ready to hear actually I need to hear it. Brief catch up on my story H of 10 years left me for OW. I didn't know about her for a few months so I was continueing to sleep with him and what I thought was working on our relationship. Come to find out he got married less than 2 weeks after he left me. SO I spoke with her and let her know what happened (all that accomplished was her telling me she knew about me and he turned her down many times but she just kept pushing. etc..... and she didn't give a sh#$ about me or my kids) She needed a father for hers and she got it. So now she doesn't allow him to come pick up the kids without a chaperon whether its her, his brother, or her kids etc... 16 months later But he continually calls me and has told me repeatedly that I cannot go out or be with anyone else. He is the only person I've slept with. And he actually calls all the time on the weekends that he has the kids just to make sure I'm home. He repeatedly tells me he's made a mistake and doesn't know what to do but as far as I know he's still married. Even though he only picks up the kids briefly he's always trying to get a quicky or whatever you want to call it (claims I probably need it because its been over a year) The problem is I love him still to this day. I can't convince the OW of anything she just throws it back on me and thats fine. But what does this all mean!! Does he really think he made a mistake? Does he think he can be married to her and come and get me when he wants? What the H#$% is going on. HELP!!!! Let it rip.
Sarah
Re: What the H@#)(*$& C-Note: He's not worth your time. He's a spineless weak a$$ and has the nerve to tell you "claims I probably need it because its been over a year" Say what! He's letting someone else run his life. Enough about him.
You need to work on you, your recovery, your future with out him or his favor's of helping you out.
just my 2 cents.
C-Note
Re: What the H@#)(*$& 4sarah: Thanks C-note I guess a lot of people don't have an opinion about this probably because they think I'm actually falling for it and doing it with him but I'm not. I always tell him keep your pants up and quit grabbing me take the kids and have a good weekend. It just feels so wierd because I know sometimes his wife I repeat wife is sitting out in the car.
Re: What the H@#)(*$& reck: we all tend to focus on the other person, hell i could easily get on a plane and pop a certain predator/parasite in your land of the free....but in the end he is irrelivent , it was her who broke the trust, not him. So you have to focus on what your ex is....and you know what that is surely :)
Re: What the H@#)(*$& doseyclwn: [quote author=4sarah link=topic=25066.msg237136#msg237136 date=1139016795">
Okay I'm ready to hear actually I need to hear it. Brief catch up on my story H of 10 years left me for OW. I didn't know about her for a few months so I was continueing to sleep with him and what I thought was working on our relationship. Come to find out he got married less than 2 weeks after he left me. SO I spoke with her and let her know what happened (all that accomplished was her telling me she knew about me and he turned her down many times but she just kept pushing. etc..... and she didn't give a sh#$ about me or my kids) She needed a father for hers and she got it. So now she doesn't allow him to come pick up the kids without a chaperon whether its her, his brother, or her kids etc... 16 months later But he continually calls me and has told me repeatedly that I cannot go out or be with anyone else. He is the only person I've slept with. And he actually calls all the time on the weekends that he has the kids just to make sure I'm home. He repeatedly tells me he's made a mistake and doesn't know what to do but as far as I know he's still married. Even though he only picks up the kids briefly he's always trying to get a quicky or whatever you want to call it (claims I probably need it because its been over a year) The problem is I love him still to this day. I can't convince the OW of anything she just throws it back on me and thats fine. But what does this all mean!! Does he really think he made a mistake? Does he think he can be married to her and come and get me when he wants? What the H#$% is going on. HELP!!!! Let it rip.
Sarah
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Want me to kick his a$$ for you? I've got some unused agression that I could vent!!
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