chicken little alonewith2: yup that's me! There was this cute guy at the bar, but I totally blew it! I talked to him some, and I know he only stayed at the bar because of me.....because he was going to go home, but I said you can't leave me here with "so and so".....my "gay date" from Christmas.....yeah, read back through posts and you'll see....so he said, okay, I'll stay for you. Then he ordered another drink, etc.....
Anyway, I got drunk. Gay man bought me shots, and that totally messed me up. So I said, bye, I'm leaving...then when I was pulling out, I saw cute guy walk out and he waved at me....oh well. I really suck at this single thing!
Re: chicken little alonewith2: Here's the sober transcription of the above post! :D
My sister (the fun one) stood me up last night, but I still wanted to go out. I had a really bad week at work....and having fun sounded like a good way to end the week! So I came up with this plan. I would go to the bar with the excuse to pick up a 6 pack, but if i saw someone I knew, I would stay.
So I go to the bar, I walk in, and lo and behold it's my gay guy from Christmas weekend! He sees me and says, "where have you been? I've been waiting for you for the past 4 weeks, and I promise I haven't cheated on you with any other women...LOL" So with a greeting like that, I decide to go up to the bar and order one beer from the cute bartender/owner and stay.
I hang out with gay guy. I have great conversations with him about massages.....which led to him giving my arm a massage to show me how great he is at it....with the help of another gentlemen as the table (he had to hold my arm up so that it would stay relaxed..... ::)) Then I played some cool tunes on the juke box....Creed's My Own Prison comes on....so gay guy drops to his knees in front of me and serenades me while using my leg as his microphone....yeah, totally cool! There was a cute guy hanging out in our group. Gay guy tries his best to match me and cute guy up. At one point gay guy gets me to do Tequila Rose shots with him....I feel my panic attacks start to come so I try to make a quick exit home, but gay guy won't let me leave....finally the panic attack goes away :). Cute guy was going to leave and I say, "hey you can't leave me here with gay guy!" So he says, "well, I thought you were leaving, but if you aren't, I'll stay..."
So he stays, we talk some. I find out he's 36, has kids (don't remember how many), was married once, and that's all I remember. Next thing I know it's 2am so I say I'm leaving. I give gay guy a hug and thank him for entertaining me for the night. I tell cute guy that it was nice to meet him. Then I leave. I see cute guy walking down the street, he waves, I wave back.....I go home write bad drunken posts....
I felt bad about not getting a number from cute guy, but after talking to my sister this morning....she tells me that cute guy is bad guy so I guess it's a good thing! This just reaffirms my belief that there are no GOOD available men in my area!
But I will take one good thing from this night. I went out by myself and had fun! Plus, there is still the cute bartender/bar owner......I'll slowly work up to that one!
Re: chicken little Peaceandquiet: Yea and there's nothing to do in your town...pffftttt... How many people have ever got their leg used as a microphone? I'm glad you had a good time..See now you have the first contact done and over with with the guy, next time you will have something to talk about. ;)
Re: chicken little alonewith2: There really isn't anything to do in this town!! Unless you make your fun times on your own...which I did last night. Yeah, I'm proud of myself! I did it...I conquered my first night out on my own without my sister and her husband to keep me company!! YEAH4ME!!!!! ;D
My sister said that the cute guy was not a good one, and I value her opinion. She knows him because gay guy is actually her uncle-in-law and this cute guy hangs out with him a lot, I guess. So I will not be pursuing that one......but there is the cute bartender which I know is a good guy. He's the one that I referred to some in my comparison post. I messed up with him, too. He spent most of the night down at the other end of the bar, but for a short time period he did come up and stand right in front of me.....but I didn't say anything to him. Then when gay guy ordered our shots it was the last of the bottle so he asked the bartender (female) if that meant he got the last shot free....because when he bartended in the past that's how they used to do it. She refused to give him the free shot....so later I asked the cute bartender/owner if they had a policy on that. He said he trains the bartenders NOT to give the free shot because he didn't want losers hanging out all night watching the bottles and ordering a shot just to get it free, but that if he had been the one pouring the shots and he knew it was for me, he would have given me the shot for free! So I guess that could be a good thing....not sure....I just sort of said okay and walked away..... ::)
See I told you I sucked at this single dating thing!
Re: chicken little dgiirl: Not to be a downer, but dont drink the liquid courage if your gonna drive.
Other then that, I'm glad you had a great fun night. :)
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