Can't believe no one told me superwife: So I just found out that my ex's grandmother died... How did I find out? My daughter tells my mother!! When did this happen? I don't know. As per my daughter, "a few months ago", but her concept of time is warped (it could have been last week for all I know). She's almost 6, and she's not known to make up things like that. And it is quite possible that she did (she was not well and in her late 80's).
Call me naive, but i really can't beleive that no one told me about this. Forget about him, he's a useless prick. But his parents?? His other grandparents? His whole family is verty close (even the in-laws)- except him, but he communicates with them. I would imagine that he went to the funeral. Wouldn't he think that I would want to know?
Still, very disappointed in him...and his family.
Re: Can't believe no one told me brokenheart: :o what??? that is horrible if they didnt tell you........ some people are just to plain mean......... wish you well.......
Re: Can't believe no one told me wendieann: When I first met my STBXH younger brother, he was on his death bed... so I met him "alive", then 1/2 hour later he was gone. Very strange way to met the family for the first time!!! Especially at the funeral!
Anyhow, I know my STBXH's First wife was so upset no-one told her about it...
I guess some people don't realize we (the X's) still have feelings and care!
Re: Can't believe no one told me jadedangel: [color=navy"> It does sound pretty frustrating ... I think too that they get so consumed in themselves .. they don't really take in the ability to care whether other people are affected. It seems so logical ... so why it doesn't make sense isn't exactly obvious to us.
Sorry about that --- it was surely a really crappy way to find that out.[/color">
Re: Can't believe no one told me superwife: This just proves to me that he thinks absolutely nothing of me. I don't mean for this to be all about me, but I know him, and I'm probably more upset about her death than he is (he did not like her, and made it obvious). And whats more, is that his family probably thinks I didn't care enough to acknowledge their loss. I would have, had I known. Those close to me are thinking he didn't want me to show up at the services. Fine, but I could have sent a sympathy card or a basket, considering it would have been from her great-granddaughter too.
I just cannot deal with this for the next 20 years. This game is getting old, and it's only been 11 months. He thinks he can erase me from his life. Well as long as we are both in our daughters' lives, it's not gonna happen!!!
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