I need to remind myself of the bad... sosad05: Today, I miss him so much. I feel like Im on the verge of tears. Maybe its because I know in a few hours the kids will be off with him and her. After all the horrible things he did to me, I still miss him and feel like a part of me died. I need to remind myself why we're not together.
-You chose to spend YOUR money on YOUR toys rather than our family.
-You chose to spend your days off with your friends rather than us.
-You took nude photographs of women and told me to get over it when I was hugely pregnant.
-You brought her into our home while I was at work and let her use my clothes and makeup
-You took our entire tax return behind my back and spent it on yourself.
-You promised me you would change when I took you back 4 yrs ago and you got worst.
-You hurt me when I was drunk and told me I deserved it. Rather than protect me, you pimped me out. Was it fun to watch?
-You lied in court
-After the babies, you made sure to point out the parts of my body that needed improvement.
-You didnt want a wife. You wanted a porn star.
I hate you for what you did to me.
Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... Chey: Wow...that's a pretty good list because I think I hate him now too!
Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... jadedangel: [color=navy"> OMG ...
I think she made it easy for us to hate him .... so now --- when she forgets .... we can remind her instead of her reminding herself.
Sometimes ... you have to keep making lists ... or you forget the bad stuff too easily.[/color">
Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... brokenbaby: I have many many lists that I refer to often. I miss him, I want him back, but why, nothing was good for me anyway???
Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... sadgirlwhyme: Sad,
It seems to me the worse a person was hurt, the nicer they try to be to the abuser...me too.
Do you think if you are very very nice and sweet to him he will treat you the same way? It just doesnt work that way. What you are doing is being the perfect one, leaving the door open so he can come back for whatever he wants whenever he wants. Take it from me. I do the same..
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