Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... C-Note: Damn this is truely messed up. I'm with everyone else. I hate the SOB too!
Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... sosad05: Thank you everyone for your support. Sometimes, I forget how bad the relationship was and I start second guessing my decision to end it. Sometimes, the loneliness hurts so bad you almost wish you had the familiar. When I read the this message I wrote, I think how sick he was and how fortunate I was to have gotten out before it got any worst. He puts on this perception to the world that he's so charming. It makes me sick. Thanks again, I feel better today. :)
Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... EssieDotCom: i have to do this a lot too. remind myself of the bad things that were between us. bc i miss him a lot too. when i have too much time to sit and think about things... so i have this pic that was taken at my daugthers last birthday when we still lived together. and in the background you can see on his desk where he lap top and PC are sitting, and if you look at the screen you can see the game EQ stopped on both computures. I look at that and it reminds me not only did he take a break from his game to join my daugthers birthday, but he always playing on both the lap top and pc at the same time while i sat there in the living room watching him and crying b/c he had no idea what he was doing to us :(
So when i miss him i look at that picture. Sadly enough, that is what it takes for me.
Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... seyfert: Sometimes the emotional bond is so much stronger than anyone can imagine.
You are doing the right thing. You are teaching your kids that love doesn't ivolve manipulation and selfish behavior.
Oh and his pointing to your body parts that need work, ....... what's his body look like? Point out a few of his flaws. (not really) He is doing that to keep you from looking at his flaws.
As a coach once told me, and it is so corney, when you point a finger, you have 3 fingers pointing back at you.
Stay strong and stay away from him.
Re: I need to remind myself of the bad... sosad05: I need to remind myself of this. He wasnt a wholesome, kind, loving man to me at all.
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