Q for people who have Ex's with children shockedandamazed: Am curious about something and I know my insecurities probably play a major part in my curiosity.
For those of you that were married and were fortunate enough to share amazing little creatures together, but are now divorced...........
Will you always have a certain place in your heart for the ex because they are the mother/father of your children?
Do you think you will ever be able to love someone the way you loved the ex?
(I don't have children, but in my mind, I think you share something amazing enough to want to have children with that person in the first place)
Re: Q for people who have Ex's with children bettyboop: I will always have a place in my heart for my ex. I have two great kids by him. He was also my first true love and I don't think you ever forget that one. As for loving again you can, but it will different then the one you had for your ex. :)
Re: Q for people who have Ex's with children jillieb44: I will always care about my ex. Right now I know I do love him, but I can never live with him. I've told him that I hold no animosity towards him any more.
Yes, I have two wonderful kids by him. I truly hope that someday he gets help for his depression and other issues (ie therapy).
Now that I've been on my own again (was for 11 years after high school before I met my ex; with ex for nearly 15 years) and in control of my life (he was VERY controlling) and taking care of myself financially (the ex is bad, Bad, BAD with money!!) I won't go back. I like being able to buy what I want, when I want, no discussions. ;) That cuz the ex took my name off the bank accounts 7 years before the divorce and I had no access to any money unless I asked, and the answer was 'we can't afford it' or 'don't spend more than $50 on groceries)...
I tell my kids that I still love their dad, but I just can't live with him. ;) They know how he is, so they understand that. And it's true.
Jillie
Re: Q for people who have Ex's with children sudboy: [quote author=shockedandamazed link=topic=25112.msg237623#msg237623 date=1139110978">
Will you always have a certain place in your heart for the ex because they are the mother/father of your children?
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I'm gonna have to go with a *no* on this one -- at least for now. There is no special place for my STBXW in my heart. But that's due to the jagged fashion in which my marriage ended, rather than having anything to do with the fact I share a sweet little boy with her.
Sudboy
Re: Q for people who have Ex's with children smokin: i do have a place in my heart for her. its the unwanted section, that has the dagger hole still there.
nope no feelings for her, and is there really a thing called l..ve?
lol.
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