Re: Q for people who have Ex's with children techick: Ok this is going to sound harsh, but I am almost physically ILL when I think about the fact that I had sex with THAT!!! Seriously.....he has proven to be so much less what I thought he was and that's a lot of my fault, I WANTED him to be what I wanted him to be...decent, caring, supportive, responsible, loving towardhis family, not a drunk.....list goes ON....but he wasn't and I can't believe that I spent that long having sex with that disgusting creature!!!!
On the plus side, I have three very beautiful (ok I AM the mom, lol) and very smart (school on this one:)) kids! So I guess I paid my dues for the best kids I could have imagined and now I am free and clear and the debt is paid and in the past:):):)
