Please help now timeofyourlife: Okay, so it is 130 here on the East Coast. My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago. I wanted to talk in person and she promised voluntarily that we would when she came home from school. Once she did come home for a week however, I was promptly blocked online. So of course I kept it all in and did not want to bother her by calling, etc. Two months go by and she unblocks me online about 5 days ago. I am thinking hey she might want to talk but I am not gonna make a fool out of myself and IM her right away. Her away messages are filled with messages about how sad she is. So tonight I come online and her profile has Friday's date in it where our old date of our three year relationship used to be. So now I feel terrible cause I never forced the issue about talking with me and never got my feelings across to her. I assume it is to late now? Should I try to casually talk with her? Or should I just bury my head in the sand?
Re: Please help now timeofyourlife: Mind you our date has been gone for a couple months. She didnt just erase it now.
Re: Please help now audi_driver: only way you are going to know is if you talk to her.....
If you do nothing you will never know.
That's my advice....
Re: Please help now ajw: Audi's right,you wont know unless you ask,i mean she's the one who blocked you(after promising to talk in person),and though she's unblocked you now,unless your some kinda fortune-teller you have no idea what her reasons are....
just ask...if she does'nt want to talk,then your in no worse a position than you are right now......at least you will know
Re: Please help now 21218: i forced myself on mine when she wanted space, didn't want to talk, etc. it temporarily fixed things but we eventually broke up because I didn't give her the time and space, I guilted her into staying ...
in my opinion, basically bullshit. if you break up with someone they at least have the right to talk to you about it to find out why. if you decide to stay with someone, it's not them guilting you ... it's you making a decision and later blaming them.
what's the point? the point is that if you had "done something" things still might have ended anyway.
you're dealing with a petty, controlling person who's a liar ... stop blaming yourself and start blaming her. she broke up with you for whatever reason ... i'm going to assume it was weak ... and then she wouldn't even give you the dignity and respect of talking to you, let alone keep a promise. don't feel bad about it, she was shitty to you.
