Re: wife & husband both on Ojar crushedman: We are the exception not the rule but my gf and I were both on Ojar at one point and it actually helped us. We are going strong and talking about getting engaged.
Re: wife & husband both on Ojar PiscesGoddess: Blazin took the words right out of my mouth.. You two seem to have a tremendous amount of anger towards one another and the good people of ojar are here to support not be mediators. As blazin said I ask that you both be respectful and also not try to drag other people into your threads that you know are going to tick the other one off.
crushedman- you are the exception as you said..Im glad you and your g/f worked things out..but this couple needs alot of help as both of their previous posts have pointed out.
The last thing ojar needs is another division or war... ::) I know that there are many other different support groups out there..perhaps one of you could move..I know I wouldnt want to be on the same board as my stbx..just more ugliness and poison to be spread that way.
I hope you two can come to some sort of amiacable place..you have 4 children to think of..that need you both.
best wishes,
Pisces
