sex with someone new... Jesy Ransier: Ok, so I did it, I for the first time.... tonight I had sex with someone other then my ex. To tell you the truth it was GREAT during the sex but now.... Nothing has changed. I thought it may erase some of the pain, some of the heartache, but you know what guys, it just leaves one more thing on your plate to have to deal with.
I watch the peoples court and the judge is always saying, ONE NAIL DRIVES OUT THE OTHER... figuring this may apply I wanted to get nailed..., I found out however, you just feel nailed to the wall... I do not regret having another man.., but it does add a new layer of things to deal with... Maybe it is because it ment to me in my heart it was truly over... Who knows... But I did it... It was good... But given the chance to do it again... Hummmm.... Maybe..
I never thought I would ever be with another man, but it was ok... Now however that he has went home and I am left once again to type out my feelings on a lap top.. I just don't know... Nothing has suddenly became different....Nothing has changed.. Or become easier...
My advice to others out there who jump into bed with someone else, do it because you have a physical NEED, not because you think it will help with emotions... Jesy.
Re: sex with someone new... Falcon554: I think you have found out what my X found out. It really does not change a thing. She did it for different reasons then you have but for her, the pain of the stuff she has done never changed, she felt better for a bit but as you said it changes nothing.
