Update JASPER: I finally got the ex to sign the papers last Monday. We both met up at the notaries office he signed I signed and we left we stood in the lobby crying and holding each other for about 15 minutes and departed.
Later that day he called and took me to lunch we didn't talk about us at all just everyday conversation.
Since then he has been calling me about every other day not really talking about anything just short pleasant conversations. When we do have these conversations it usaully follows a visit or something with in that day.
I try to stay very nonchalant about these visits and phone calls because it would set me back trying to figure out what is going on in his head,but I am thankful for them because I do miss him something awful. I never call him I let him ignitiate the calls which works for me because I don't have to worry about the rejection if he is not in the mood to talk with me.
So this morning he calls me before I go to work he ask me if I wanted to stop over before I went in I said sure. I stopped by we had our usuall convesations and wise cracks I flirted with him a little bit only because I'm a flirt by nature which lead to other things and before I knew it he was attacking me (not that I did anything to stop him). It has been about a month since we have been together and that long since I've been with anyone so I really wanted to anyway.
I refuse to let this confuse me I have decided that I will let it be just what it was to people having sex nothing more nothing less.
Although I am dying to know what is going on in his head it's pointless to ask because I'm sure he still doesn't know.
