Re:sad clown, again? Lumpy: Must concur with everyone else here. Part of being a complete human being is experiencing the full range of emotions. Willing to bet your office mate is a bit on the dull side.(Sorry meek, lonely, office guy, just hang in, the bible says you will inherit the earth.) From soaring through true love to sobbing in your beer, I'd rather have run the gauntlet and gotten my brains beat out than to have just sat on the sidelines and wondered. The most interesting people I know have experienced some horrid s**t. Try and realize that what you are going through now is shaping you into a stronger more capable person.
I get the weepys outta nowhere too. In a way, I've come to see them as a relief. At least I'm not numb. As you get further into your new life, pehaps your divorce will make more sense. Why? It always seems to be the first question asked and the hardest one to answer. The whats, wheres,and whos are much more concrete. The why is at least fifty percent assumption as we can't read our stbxs' minds. And thats assuming you know yourself well enough to fill in your own half of the equation. Seems to me your life is moving along at a pretty good clip. I'd take bps' suggestion and enjoy a boat drink every once and a while.(Have you been watching Things to do in Denver when your dead bp?) Stay sane.
