Not attracted to anyone?? even if they are pretty? Jessy_Miami: I've been dating for a while now, nothing serious. It;s been a year since divorce and no matter how pretty the girls I go out with are, I don't feel any kind of attraction, I simply have fun with them, laugh, dance and party but after two or three dates I feel pressured to kiss them or have sex with them (By pressure, I mean they are too obvious and want to have something by the second or third date) now, I do enjoy the having fun part, I'm just not having fun when the girl I'm dating starts seducing me or making it obvious that she wants sex.
I even had a situation where I could not 'perform' if you know what I mean, I was not attracted to the girl and I felt really bad.
After a year, is this normal? My Ex-wife is VERY attractive and sensual, I'm pretty sure I'm not IN LOVE with her anymore, but I do feel attracted to her physically.
Re: Not attracted to anyone?? even if they are pretty? Older Guy: Hmmmm...sounds to me like you might have unresolved issues regarding your ex ?
Re: Not attracted to anyone?? even if they are pretty? Jessy_Miami: [quote author=Older Guy link=topic=25513.msg242310#msg242310 date=1139937947">
Hmmmm...sounds to me like you might have unresolved issues regarding your ex ?
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Well, the thing is that in the past, after long term relationships I moved on like a month after the breakups. But in this case we are talking marriage, I have two kids and I took my vows seriously.
Re: Not attracted to anyone?? even if they are pretty? Older Guy: Nothing wrong with taking your time. You'll know when you're ready to really move on. But the reality is that your past life only exists in memory at this point. So eventually you will move on from it.
Good luck and don;t try to force yourself to d oanything that you;re not ready for.
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[quote author=Older Guy link=topic=25513.msg242310#msg242310 date=1139937947">
Hmmmm...sounds to me like you might have unresolved issues regarding your ex ?
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Well, the thing is that in the past, after long term relationships I moved on like a month after the breakups. But in this case we are talking marriage, I have two kids and I took my vows seriously.
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Re: Not attracted to anyone?? even if they are pretty? PROFKLUMP: I know your issue. My ex was hot and the best I have ever had in bed. Now I am with a very attractive girl and I am just not feeling it... I have been going out with a bunch of girls but it just doesn't feel right.
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