Email exchange between me and the ex.. PiscesGoddess: So I suppose this would be considered sent.. I am posting the email and my response how I sent it.. I am filled with anger and hate right now >:(
Him-I won't send money to the kids because you'll take it.-
Me-Excuse Me? You were the one that always took their money..I have never taken a dime from them..If I think about it Im the one well actually their"dad" is the one clothing and putting food on the table for them.but since you dont give a rats ass about them..you wouldnt consider that would you? You think your piddly ass child support does much more than buy them a happy meal? And btw your mother is being sent a check for emmas amount and if she tells you otherwise I have the canceled checks to prove it.
Him-I won't send anything to the kids to the kids because
you'll return it and take the money.-
Me- Whatever helps you sleep at night Tim ::)
Him-I won't call because you won't answer the phone-
ME_ Umm..how would you know that if you never call?? Did I not have the kids call you last time? TO be NICE?? You just cant accept the fact you are just like your own father!. (his father had no contact with him growing up)
Him-If you won't show the card to them, I can't control
that. I do know that I made the attempt to let them
know I was thinking about them. Someday, the day will
come when I get the chance to explain to them both all
that you did and they can form their own opinion about
you just like everyone else has.-
Me- Everyone who? You're little circle? You're mom? Like I give a rats ass? These kids are quickly forgetting about you and its your fault not mine!
HIM- you think you
still hold all the cards but as you've learned with my
mother, you don't and the control is slipping little
by little.-
ME- Whatever! I have more control than you think I do..YOU didnt care about Emma til your mom got her..now you all are like pigs in slop..You dont care about the kids..you just care about being "right"..When the kids are old enough and they want to come to you..they will be asking why you didnt stand up and take responsibility! Btw..I havent signed guardianship papers yet..so hmm..who has control???
HIM- You've done this all yourself. For once in
your life, grow up.-
ME-Ive been a grown up far longer than you have..I dont take off and not give a second thought to my kids.. I give them presents..I bent over backwards to help Emma.. YOU WALKED INTO THE PICTURE WHEN YOUR MOTHER FORCED YOUR HAND!
Him-P.S.- The cruise was GREAT, can't wait until Joe takes
me on another one this fall!
ME-Did you stop and think maybe your kids might like a vacation? Oh yeah..you dont pay the correct amount of child support so we have to scrimp and save just to keep them clothed and fed..so vacations are out of the question.. go on your cruise dumbass..Print out this email and show it to everyone you know..poor pitiful Timmy.. big bad Regina.. I get to kiss E and S goodnight everynight.. I get to see them grow.. I get to see them smile ..You dont. So when I take you to court.. and the judge laughs at you because you say IM a big meany and wont let you talk to the kids thats why you havent seen them in over 6 months..and I take your parental rights away..we'll see who has control then. Now go crying to mommy Timmy.. cause God knows you cant just be a man.
I rue the day I ever met you...You wanna have a relationship with the kids? THEN you have to do it..but dont think they dont realize you didnt even give them a xmas present..YOU ARE LOSING QUICKLY!.. And when C walks S down the aisle and your old and alone cause Joe has croaked from his HIV.. we'll see whose suffering then wont we?
DO NOT CONTACT ME THROUGH MY EMAIL ANY MORE! If you want to contact the kids by phone or mail FINE..but do not contact me!
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Re: Email exchange between me and the ex.. Cherry: Awww honey, I dont know what to say. I understand. I just posted a similar thing in the premium vents. You are a strong woman!!! I admire you and what you are doing. ((((HUGS)))))
Re: Email exchange between me and the ex.. alonewith2: Oh girl! {{{HUGS}}} It sucks when someone thinks that they all of a sudden become a caring parent because they took 2 seconds out of their otherwise busy day doing other things that have nothing to do with the kids!!!
My kids' dads didn't call or anything. I let the kids call them, but neither one of them were home. Must be they had more important people to spend thier time/thoughts with today......whatever!
Re: Email exchange between me and the ex.. Obiwan: Sorry you have to deal with him my goddess. His mom is forcing his hand and calling all the shots there and I know you know that. He had already made his intentions clear long ago when you were dealing with Emma. Time is the true judge for all parents. Children grow up and they learn what is what. They will know the depth of their parents' hearts and the character within.
Don't let the anger stay too long...he isn't worth it. You just keep on being a great mom to those wonderful kids!!!
Hugs
;)
Re: Email exchange between me and the ex.. JNA: Rid'eress wrote: DO NOT CONTACT ME THROUGH MY EMAIL ANY MORE! If you want to contact the kids by phone or mail FINE..but do not contact me!
I think you got it right...
I get along with my ex-wife so we talk even when neither of us have the kids...(When Grandpa HELPPPSSSS!!!!)...LOL
If I had kids with my exgf though...I would want "very" minimal contact with her if at all...
Those things in your e-mail always would come up with her...Little Jabs ya know
Stay Strong
Biff
PS...Biff knows a way to backdoor (He should no that term) a virus into his system through your response to him...
sorrybiffsbeingmean
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