What do you think? Spectrum: Hey,
If someone you knew had a friend that was going through a terrible divorce and really needed someone to talk to, would you give them this address to give to their friend?
And if you did, would you be pi$$ed if instead of sharing this address with their friend they came to this site and read all your posts and formed judgements about you based on what they read?
Spectrum.
Re: What do you think? shockedandamazed: Oh god yes!! I have suggested this to three other people...they came to me when they found out what had happened to me - they are all women and two have no idea who my ex is, the other one is a long time mutual friend, female....have never given any of them my screen name, but with a little digging, it wouldn't be hard to figure out!
Now, I find myself checking the 'Share your story' board to see if any of the stories match with theirs!!!
I coveted OJAR ever since I first signed up. One of my close gay male friends wanted to know the site and I said, 'Sorry...it is my own private Idaho'. Not that it is a hard site to find, but still......now am wishing I didn't share it with the mutual long time friend...just wanted to help...might help myself out to a public hanging!
Re: What do you think? gulfcoast: Wouldn't bother me a bit unless they were just straight forward degrading me.
Re: What do you think? C-Note: I'll see what happenes to me. I've just introduced this site to someone going through an ugly divorce who knows me very well. To the outside world I really have never talked openly at all about my Ex. O well the cat will be out the bag soon enough. :D
Re: What do you think? superwife: I have this problem- I tell everyone most of my problems. I do save some of the unbelievable details for my nearest and dearest. So I don't think there's much more they'd find out.
I've actually held back somewhat on OJAR. Some what really goes on seems too ridiculous to be real, and I feel you really need to know him to believe he is capable of the antics he pulls.
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