Can you breakup and still live under the same roof? playboy:
Not sure if this is the right place to write in, but here goes:
Me and the girlfriend broke up, we were living in the same house, rented of course. And she decided to make the cal to breakup, we both love the house and each other's company very much but she's young and unexperienced and not sure what she wants in life yet.
Now, can we live in the same house, continue a friendship and hope for the best?
more of my story later, its early in the morning, -36 degrees celcius out and have to go to work soon. thanks everyone..:)
Playboy
Re: Can you breakup and still live under the same roof? N U M B: Unless the two of you can be completely comfortable with the other person bringing someone home, I wouldn't recommend it.
Re: Can you breakup and still live under the same roof? Neej: I also had the same topic last Sunday.
My opinion no - if you are hurt by this.
BECAUSE:
That will at the end be as such that things will get uncomfortable and worst case even rotten. And if there is any chance of you getting back together living under the roof dimnish any hopes.
I reccomend - to take split, move to another friend or something and give it a few days, so you both can clear your heads and then get back and see how you feel.
This is my opinion only and the decision I made when my wife said the same thing last Sunday. As of Monday we live in different roofs. By the way I think it is also important that you both move a stay away from your mutual roof.
I am also curiouse to see what people think of my suggestions here as their responses will server you as it will server me.
Re: Can you breakup and still live under the same roof? lightseeker: I did that with an old long term girlfriend for 4 months. It was hell. Oh, we got along "okay", but watching a date pick her up and drive her away was not fun. It was no good either because then I really needed to have space and solitude when I wanted it. Her being there was a constant reminder of our failure and I would not recommend that. Besides, it is not always possible to be friends afterwards because someone (or both) are too hurt. this old girlfriend and I are still not friends even though their was no nastiness between us. I hope you can do better, but I would think really hard before comitting to a roommate relationship - few people are Seinfeld and Elaine. Good luck!
Re: Can you breakup and still live under the same roof? N U M B: Here's another rotten thought... I tried that with my stbxh and I ended up walking in on him having phone s** and m@sturbating in the middle of the night. His groaning woke me up in the middle of the night. Wasn't exactly a great start to my healing process.
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