Re: wanting vs. willing 21218: i wanted to be married to her, she was willing to be married to me. no one could or should have to deal with that, either one of us.
there may have been a way to get her to stick around longer, but i would've been increasingly unhappy, as well as she, and the only way she'd ever be happy was if she desperately wanted to stay married to me ... like any spouse should.
it wasn't me, she would have been this way with anyone else. i feel sad for her because when she finally grows up she is going to realize what she gave up.
she loved me but she loves herself and her own issues way more ... so if it's giving up her issues or giving up me, she gave up me. the end.
too bad, so sad, go cry.
Re: wanting vs. willing crushedman: The thing is, man, everything worth having in this world requires concerted effort. So she will continue repeating the same cycle again and again and again until she figures it all out. On the other hand, you already 'get it'. So good things lie in your future and shit lies in her future.
