Re:My Wife says she just doesn't love me anymore Mysticman2k: OK Today I'm having a bad day - I didn't mention before that becuase my ex wanted me to give up my career so that she could return to work while i looked after the kids, I gave up my job & car & independance.
I'm currenty living in the same home as her because i don't have any money and now she has quit her job and we've recieved a possession order for our property!
Shes ok coz she has family and friends that will see she and the kids are ok but i have no family and only a few friends (none a depend on).
Anyway as i said all in all I've had a bad day I feel ill (FLU) and I get upset inside every time she goes out to sociallise.
I keep going over in my mind about the plans we'd made for the future and its really getting to me.
I keep Crying when she goes out or anytime i'm on my own.
Sometimes I don't want to see my friend because I know I could explode with tears anytime.
:'(
Re:My Wife says she just doesn't love me anymore incoherentlonghorn: Sounds like a bad day...
No matter how horrible it seems right now, and it may feel like the bottom, six months from now it most likely will not feel as bad. Longhorn hugs!
It must be hard living under the same roof, but you have to do whatever is necessary. Crying is healthy, it heals the soul. And I've probably cried on ten shoulders by now...and I know men who loved their wives dearly...it is only reasonable to tell a friend whom you care for that you are hurting. Otherwise, why were you married.
I hope you feel better soon, please take care of yourself!
LL
Re:My Wife says she just doesn't love me anymore Mysticman2k: Thank you LL for your kind words.
The upset (depression) seems have passed for now I fell better within like an hour or so, Its just that its like a ton of bricks when it hits me.
Anyway I'm not even sure how much longer I'll be able to get here because the Tele bill has not been paid and I was meant to be disconnected last saterday?
It does seem that everyone whats to kick me while I'm down at the moment!
But Everything has gone pear shaped, So i guess now things CAN only get better? - I hope!
Re:My Wife says she just doesn't love me anymore picadilly: Mystic, I understand completely how you feel. That first bit, after my wife life, I would just start crying sometimes. A song on the radio... something of her's I stumbled upon...
But like LL said, almost 6 months down the road and I'm doing better. I still feel sad when I think of her & I miss being with someone, but I feel more comfortable alone now, bearly. :) it will be the same for you, it will fade some, it will get better. Life is harsh, but you can handle it. Dust yourself off & start again. You don't want to be a wreck all the time, you need to prove to her what she is losing. be better then what you were.
Be well.
Re:My Wife says she just doesn't love me anymore Bob-Bob: Hey man I know all about those mood swings... they were from high to low in no time... have the two of you discussed couseling? perhaps that might be a good route... I know for me my ex was unwilling to go through Marriage/couples counseling... but I went to therapy for myself... It really helped me to realize things about myself... Hang in there man!!! The roller coaster of love can get pretty wicked... and there are alot of highs and lows you will go through...
Welcome to OJAR... hope we all can help
Bob
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