Re:AARRRGGG Bad "friendly outing" incoherentlonghorn: I just called him to ask if all was well and if he got my voicemail...don't like apologizing in VM...
His response...I wouldn't worry about it to much...its not that important...I'm busy, have to go...
OK.
I don't want to change him (make him attached), that clearly doesn't work...
Just another one of lifes bummers...hangin tough.
Re:AARRRGGG Bad "friendly outing" Lumpy: Yo LL, think maybe you need to redefine "friendly relationships". When I hang out with female buddies checking out members of the opposite sex and comparing notes is one of the more enjoyable pastimes. Seems like the two of you need to hash out boundaries to some degree. As far as checking out other women when out on a date goes, that's school in the summertime action. I hope youse guys can manage to maintain a friendship despite the sexual tension. Would be interested to know how this one turns out.
Re:AARRRGGG Bad "friendly outing" Brian75034: it sounds like you two arent truly friends...there seems to be some strange "dynamic" going on.
I believe once you have already become "intimate" its VERY hard to go back to where you once were before.
Re:AARRRGGG Bad "friendly outing" bit pusher: Brian may be on to something ... you guys may be in that "Once you've had sex it's hard to go back to holding hands" limbo ...
-bp
Re:AARRRGGG Bad "friendly outing" incoherentlonghorn: My "friend" called me back and said nothing...he knew that I wanted to talk so he called to listen.
ME: I thought by saying I don't appreciate what is going on that it was clear I was upset.
Him: I didn't think you were serious; you're so facetious and never minded before...
ME: Well I guess you now know that an hour and a half of gawking must be my cap. Please don't do it again.
HIM: I had no idea you were upset.
ME: Alright, thanks for calling I appreciate it, have a nice evening...(nicely)
He took no blame and no empathy...it was all me. I'll watch out he said.
Now he is literally off the charts genius. I am not stupid enough to believe he didn't KNOW and this is the second time he has pulled the I'M STUPID argument. He knows the least amount of effort to put forth to keep me from walking. I'm starting to feel manipulated.
I say that I know how he feels or maybe I just take his breadcrumbs for face value...I don't think he is good enough for me...
This song seems fitting...
PAM TILLIS LYRICS
SPILLED PERFUME LYRICS
(Pam Tillis/Dean Dillon)
I ain`t even gonna to ask you
I can read you like a book
Girl if I ever saw one that`s an
I can`t believe I did that look
You look like something that the cat drug in
So I won`t kick you while you`re down
Just let me tell you friend to friend
`Bout a block I`ve been around
Did you really think last night would last forever
Did you really think that guy hung the moon
Right now you hate yourself `cause you knew better
But there`s no use crying over spilled perfume
There`s a big difference between lonely
And lonely for way too long
And I knew when he made his move
You weren`t feeling all that strong
So I bit my tongue `cause I saw it coming
As you danced so close to him
It`s two steps forward and three steps back
When a heart is on the mend
Did you really think last night would last forever
Did you really think that guy hung the moon
Right now you hate yourself `cause you knew better
But there`s no use crying over spilled perfume
You fell in a moment of weakness
Well you just got to pull yourself back up
Dry your morning-after tears
`Cause what`s done is done
Did you really think last night would last forever
Did you really think that guy hung the moon
Right now you hate yourself `cause you knew better
But there`s no use crying over spilled perfume
No use crying over, no use crying over
No use crying over, spilled perfume
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