The s2bx realized he made a mistake incoherentlonghorn: I am so excited!!!! There is hope even with men who wouldn't cooperate for three years.
Just left a meeting I arranged with the s2bx to see why he was being so uncooperative and wouldn't consider negotiation outside of court, against my better judgment; but you know me...must never give up. And I am thrilled to say that we had our first mature conversation in what, 3 years, including the separation. One where we sincerely disagreed with each other on large issues.
I’m going to try not to put too much weigh on our cooperation, but I can handle the rest of the divorce if even a resemblance of this continues. He said it took me six months to realize how big of a mistake I made.
I asked why he refused to negotiate with our attorneys out of court and he said that his attorney never asked him, but he will call him today to see why his attorney said that he refused. Maybe a little negotiation will occur, because getting ripped to pieces in court is no fun. BUT someone is definitely lying.
Whats funny:
1. For the record he is no longer married to me; he has moved on. Even if that is a claim: YEAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2. And I’ve never called him anything other than his abbreviated name xxx, expect typical flirtatious names, but he corrected me…my name is xxxxxx.
3. Him/his attorney went out after the last court hearing, remember the horrible one, to celebrate my attorneys incompetence. The one i fired...his attorney, "she didn't even fight." Great and you wonder why I fired he, she really contributed.
Not funny:
I accidently called him babe.
Edit ~ And uncle sam visited me today with a really hefty check...I think I'll get a new haircut...
Re:The s2bx realized he made a mistake picadilly: ;D Feels good, I'm happy for you. He doesn't know what he lost... but maybe now he's beginning to understand it.
Now, if he can keep it up, you'll be good to go. Have a great day, you deserve it.
Peace & love always.
Re:The s2bx realized he made a mistake bkg: So... LL.... if he's sincere... would you reconcile?????
Re:The s2bx realized he made a mistake incoherentlonghorn: I must admit that it crossed my mind right after I walked out the door, but only for a mila-second.
I would never have left him if I wasn't positive that this is best for myself and my son. Some of the things he did were simply wrong and no one deserves to be treated that way. Even if we tried, it probably would not work since I'm not big enough of a person to forget all of the horrible things he has done. Maybe forgive, not forget.
I am grateful there is a glimmer of hope that he will become the father I knew he could be. He is so close.
Edit - I used to fear that he would change and I would miss out, but now I'm starting to think that him changing is a beautiful thing even though I won't reconcile.
Re:The s2bx realized he made a mistake ChristyM: Hey LL -
Huge squeezy hugs to you......
[quote"> I am grateful that there is a glimmer of hope that he will become the father I knew he could be. He is so close.[/quote">
Be glad for this at least. You know I wish this for my daughter more than anything.
I just want your s2bx to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. It sounds like that's starting to happen. Hang in there hon.
Christy
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