Re:The Calm before the Storm picadilly: Lovefool, I really do know that feeling your going through.
We sold our "dream" home back in December. It was on the market for 6 days & it also sold above the market value. We listed it one month after she left, so there was no going back. There is no going back.
It was really hard moving out, packing & stuff. She had movied out & pretty much left the packing to me. When ever she came by to do anything, pack her clothes or what not, she did it while I was at work. I haven't seen her since the day she left, 6 months ago & I haven't talked on the phone with her since Dec. All communications with her now are via e-mail & now that we have nothing joint anymore, I haven't heard from her since.
It sucks but there is nothing I can do. I think sometimes that maybe I should go knock on her door & ask, "What the F*ck?" but then I realize, I don't know where she lives now.
Be well, it's hard but we can do it.
PM if you want to talk or "compare notes". :P
Re:The Calm before the Storm Basset: Dear LoveFool,
Thank you for sharing your story. I read it a few times already.
My husband said that I can go on and procede with a divorce while he figures out if he loves me as a wife. Then, he decided to go on dates with me along with other women and see how hisrelationship with me turns out - basically start all over again. As psychology major, I know the best thing is to see a marriage counsellor. But what can I do? This man is stubborn. So, I gave in to his idea. But then who knows? Maybe I came up with the idea together with him. Fortunately, another man came into my life and made me his committed partner. My husband lost me completely.
If my husband really wanted me, he should have (1) be willing to see a marriage counselor (2) not mention he doesn't want to be tied down to wife so that he can have sex with many. But I suspect he is jealous of the new man I have.
Basset
