Just get over it! dre: My neighbor saw my husband the other day. Told me this last night. I said was he in my car? He said no and Im not going into it. I asked him why he told me in the first place. He said at least he told me that much. I said he was being a dick. So he agreed to tell me something. He said that my husband looked majestic and is doing fine without me and I need to get over it. Who brought this up? I didnt bring up my husband at any time last night. My husband told me last time I talked to him to stay away from my ex boyfriend because of this and that. He called me baby oops I mean Dre and still calls me his wife because we are still married legally. He complained that he doesnt need to tell me why he reopened a bank account in both our names because I threw him out. This does not sound like he is over me. I told my neighbor that my stbxh puts on a good front. I said my husband has my car and a grant from FEMA and a new girlfriend and I already knew this and he doesnt need to rub it in. Of course he seems happy with everything but it does not mean he is over me. I do want him to be happy I just dont think I have to hurry up and get over it because of the way he acts.
Re: Just get over it! sosad05: Dre...you know they have to put on a good show for everybody. They have to prove to the world they are just fine without us. You know someday, they will feel the pain and realize what a good thing they lost! :)
Re: Just get over it! CinciChic: It has me wondering why your neighbor had to bring up your husband in the first place ??? What is it to him anyway?
Your husband is surely putting on a show for everyone, I don't care who you are, you don't just get over someone just like that. He might not admit to it but I am sure he still thinks of you.
Just keep your head held high, and put on that show for everyone as he is doing!
We do not have to let everyone know we are upset about the situation...
Re: Just get over it! JNA: He's not over it...
He's playing both sides of a card
In otherwords if "she" doesn't work out he always has you to come back to...
In his mind anyway
He told your neighbor that because of his own insecurity and to tell you things that he doesn't have the guts to tell you...
He still loves you
Period...
JNA
Re: Just get over it! nic1025: Ugh, poop on our ex's....
That's my final say.
I had to meet mine at the bank one last time last week.....and while we're standing in line waiting to be helped he's trying to make stupid small talk. I'm annoyed just kind of ignorning him so he steps it up a notch. He streches and is like well I have to hurry up and get out of here so I can get a work out in before work.
I wanted to tell him look - you were lazy when we dated, you were lazy when we were married and I know you're *still* a lazy a$$.
Psht - again, ex's suck
