My little sis, the crack whore snkpack5: So my mom calls today very upset because, once again, my little sister is causing problems.
For those of you who didn't already know this, my little sister is one of those people who will never amount to much because they have absolutely no aspiration to be anything other than what they already are. Unfortunately for her, she is a mooch with an addictive personality. And apparently, she's a-ok with being this for the rest of her life.
My little sister is a chain-smoking alcoholic who has been addicted to everything from prescription meds to heroin (which she used to shoot up between her toes). She is also addicted to men. Seriously, if she goes two days without one she starts to twitch. And the courtship period before intimacy might be measured in mere hours and not days or weeks or months.
So, my parents decided to bring her to Alaska to escape the abusive relationship she was in down in Louisiana. Mind you, they were abusive to each other. He hit her and cheated on her (she cheated on him too) and then she beat him up with a 2X4. Ah, love.
To get her out of Louisiana, my parents shelled out $5000. They haven't really been clear for what, but I got the impression it was for bail or some type of criminal fees. And they drive her all the way up to Alaska convinced that this is the time she will change. Because they've helped her before and she's always thrown it back in their face and gone back to the same life. They've paid for checks she's bounced. They paid to get her out of jail after she was caught digging through dumpsters for food. My dad went to jail when she was caught driving with marijuana because the military police weren't sure if it was his or not. She has put my parents through hell and back and they always choose to believe that she will change. So they keep saving her. My sister who was a stripper, but convinced my mom (hopeful as ever) that she was just a waitress at the "Big Apple."
So they bring her up here and buy her a camper trailer, $10000. Brand new and pretty nice for one person. She is responsible for making payments to them and paying the rent for a space. Within two days, she has some guy living with her. . . She quits her job and stays home to take care of his son, who has also moved into the one person camper with her.
Now she has no income so she just stops paying my parents. But apparently they stop paying their space rent too, so now they are being evicted and my sister asks my parents to pay for it. . . again. And now the guy has left her . . . and she's promising my parents that she will start paying and she will get a job, blah, blah.
And my mom is asking me if she should believe her and I don't think she should. Why, because my sister has the whole cry and promises thing down now. Its not even sincere anymore. My mom buys it everytime because she loves her and she WANTS to believe her more than anything. But she can't seem to realize that my sis will never stand on her own two feet until she doesn't have my parents to fall back on.
So my little sister who probably boinked my ex and treats my parents like crap is once again ruining the peaceful nature of my existence. And I just want her to go. And the dog she loves so much that she couldn't leave it in Louisiana, she says she's going to give away . . . and my parents asked me to keep it.
And if my parents fall into her little trap again and pay the $1000 that it will take to pay up all her past due bills, how long will it be before she finds another guy that she can't live without and f*cks them over again?
Re: My little sis, the crack whore yella: Snk... I feel your pain here in a major way! It seems, except for the smoking and drugs (which my bitch of a sister stopped - finally), they are very similar.
Maybe we need to find a place where we can stick these two so they can drag each other down and leave the rest of us hard workers alone, huh?
Your sister is one thing, my sister is something else. But, in any event, neither work for what they need and want, but they rely on others to do it for them. Sad, but true.
My sister lives in the ghetto... basically... projects really... lives off the state... food stamps... wic... welfare... section 8... etc... She now has criminal charges brought against her and could lose her day-care certification putting her out of a job for good. Nice, huh? All this because she can't keep her fat mouth shut and mind her own damn business.
Did I ever tell you that she had her "love" steal my parents' car and torch it because my mom didn't want her seeing the gangsta? Or that she called DSS on my mom because my mom actually put her foot down for once? Yeah, nice kid, huh? Still, after all this, she's the golden child. The one who needs my mom the most. I got shafted for years because of that whore.
Someday, Girl, someday, things will come back around and you and I will both shine!
Re: My little sis, the crack whore doseyclwn: I feel for you, Snk. I hope your parents are able to adopt the attitude that they need to cut her loose, that being your sis's only hope. It's rough, though.
Re: My little sis, the crack whore Horseface: Thats tough snak...
I had an errant son and I had to cut him off completely financially. He called one time saying he hadn't eaten in three days and would I send over a pizza?
I very polietly said "I'm so sorry about that but you told me you were old enough to live on your own and you didn't need my help anymore. So, I'm going to respect your wishes". I hung up the phone and almost threw up.
It paid off, he finally figured out that he had to make his way or he was in trouble. Fortunatly, he joined the army and they beat it out of him!!!
So sorry about that snk. Parents do not do thier kids any favors by not letting them stand on their own two feet.
Re: My little sis, the crack whore brokenbaby: Snk, I have two sisters like that and my parents keep saving them. I dont talk to them about them anymore because I am so tired of it. Last year when my stbxh left for the second time I needed a place to stay. No one offered. I cant count how many times my sisters have stayed with them. How many times they have given them money and the worst part is, they are both on welfare and it's like they have a kid to get a pay raise. They have no respect for the assistance they have been given. It drives me crazy. I wouldn't take the dog and I would stand firm with your mom that she is just going to do it again. Because you are right. She will.
JMO
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