How can you be ready for marriage? sosad05: Dear You-I have been doing so well lately. Until recently, when I found out from our daughter you're getting married. You met OW less than 2 months from our seperation, our divorce JUST became final end of Oct...and you're getting married.
I want in on your secret. How did you do it? How did you get over me so quickly. How did you turn off the feelings for someone you were with for so long and suddenly have feelings for someone you just met...enough feelings to marry them?! Is marriage just a joke to you? Did you look at her and was it love at first sight? Do you think she's your soulmate?
I realize she's rich...or at least has good credit. I realize she's bought you new things and moved you into her expensive house. I realize she's designated bedrooms for our children you see sometimes only 6 hrs a week. I realize she bought brand new bedroom sets for them. I realize she bought my 6 yr old a brand new computer. I'm not stupid. I know how much money you make, I know how selfish you are with your money, and I know how much you have to pay me in child support...so I know its her money. Is this to compete with me? Is that what its all about with you? Is that what makes you happy I know it wont make you happy for long because I did those same things for you. I couldnt keep up with it anymore though....maybe she can.
Underneath it all, I want you to be happy. However, I dont think this marriage is what is going to make you happy. I think its a further escape from the pain you'll never show. I think its a cop out.
