Life maybe not going his way?? BONILLAK: My stbxh hasn't called or seen the kids in over 9 weeks. I have talked to him here and there and he doesn't even ask about them! All of a sudden he started calling here last night and tonight and mind you since he left here 5 months ago he has never called them evenings or weekends as he said he was enjoying his time.LOL Last night he left a message saying he loved the kids and will try and call another day. Tonight he calls and says...pick up the phone.....hello....I tried.....I'm calling for the kids....you must be on the computer.
I have this strong feeling that now he is having second thoughts as he sounds miserable, sad, lonely...I have never had these feelings before but I think it won't be long before he is homeless and at my doorstep. But I'm so ready to say....sorry, you made your bed.
Re: Life maybe not going his way?? Lumpy: Maybe he just misses the kids. Maybe someone close to him (Mom, Dad, Sibling) just jumped down his throat for not staying in contact with the kids. I wouldn't read so much into it...
Re: Life maybe not going his way?? BONILLAK: He doesn't talk to anyone in his family since he left and he has been trying to be too nice to me lately and trying to make me feel bad that he doesn't have much money now a days, etc. I just see too much change.
Re: Life maybe not going his way?? sudboy: I'm with Lumpy on this one. It might be nice to think he's miserable, but all you really know is that he's called to speak to the kids. Hang in there.
Sudboy
Re: Life maybe not going his way?? bluskygrl: Actions proven over a period time will be the only way to tell anything...but then again I'm not one to give a second chance to someone who has hurt me badly.
It would be ncie for the kids....I'd second guess his motives though.
Blu
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