Re: A question for the women among you Life2.0: [quote author=bluskygrl link=topic=26076.msg248893#msg248893 date=1141021379">
listening is charming
empathy...being able to see anothers point
confidence... was mentioned before, but not egocentric
sense of humor...being able to laugh, even at yourself
being able to help a gril out when she is in a ackward situation even if that means making yourself look foolish too
passion... having something you really beleive in
sensitivity to other living beings...elderly, children, animals
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I practiced all these with my stbxw, and tried to improve upon them as well. I guess that means she was the "don't care for charm" type after all.
Re: A question for the women among you bluskygrl: then you have done what you can and maybe it is her issue not yours. Sometimes you can give until you are half dead and it will still not be enough.
I think its "charming" you are trying.
Best of luck
