Re: this is just me complaining, I plan on doing it here and often seyfert: You can tell him what is going on with you and see how he responds. It sounds like you still are deeply in love with him and just need him to appreciate you.
Tell him what you need specifically, like to empty the dishwasher or to vacuum the floor. Sometimes, asking to clean up, is to vague. Small, short tasks are easier to complete than one monumental 'clean up.'
I hope things get better for you.
Re: this is just me complaining, I plan on doing it here and often Lome: Thanks for the replys.....Just when I am convinced that I am the back up plan...he confuses me more.
This morning when I went to leave, I touched his arm lightly to say good bye. He still sleeps on the couch and will until he "gets his head together"....so he wakes up in that "stupid to the world and groggy way" and lightly kisses me and holds my hand...
Is he just so full of guilt and this bipolar/BPD stuff that he is confused?
I wish he would talk to me...he simply will not.
I simply love him so very much.
