Missed your phone calls BONILLAK: Dear Joe,
You left a message here Friday night and then again on Saturday night both saying that we must be online and you are calling to talk to the kids, etc. Should we have been expecting your call? It has been 9 weeks since you have even tried to call the kids! Saturdays come and go and you never even call let alone show up for visitation. We still can't know your number or where you live or what your doing but you have an atitude because one of the kids or I are online while your calling? I have talked to you at least once per week these past 9wks since you have contacted the kids and you never even ask about them. I asked you numerous times to call them and you tell me you can't call after 4pm and since we aren't home that early too bad! Now you catch an attitude on the answering machine?? These kids have had only 26hrs worth of contact with you in 5 months and you never cared when they were hurting and missing you! Now they have adjusted, have stopped asking about you(you didn't even call them on New Years), stopped wondering if and when you'll call or see them and now you want to call? Why? Do you miss them? Do you hurt for them? Where were you then? Did you feel their pain? Did you console them when you went to work one day never to return? What about the last time you visited here and I went out so you could spend the day here with them but you acted like a baby and wouldn't come inside and made the kids spend 6hrs outside in the snow and cold??? Made them eat a banana only for lunch in the snow?!?! Are all these things easily forgotten? These kids are not toys! They have feelings, they hurt and they don't forget. Your 16yr old son wants nothing at all to do with you!! Does that hurt? I asked you to join us several times for therapy and you refuse! Your 9yr old daughter who was always stuck to you like glue has no desire to talk to you and says she will see you here if she has to but won't go with you because she feels like she doesn't know you and she doesn't trust you anymore. Our 3 yr old is the only one right now that would forgive and forget. The others have been too hurt and too scarred. Their lives have changed and they aren't super happy about the changes. They now have to be in bed every night at 7pm so they can get up with me at 4:30am for work and they work with me then go to school, etc. They have a whole new life and you chose to step away from them. Do you think 26hrs of contact in 5 months is ok? Do you really think you know them anymore? I'm so angry at you for this behavior! The last time they talked to you they asked and begged to see you and all you would say is soon....well, its now 9wks and its never come!
Re: Missed your phone calls mrlament: ALL I CAN SAY IS HE'LL BE SORRY....CAN I BORROW YOUR KIDS THIS WEEKEND?
LUV YA !
