Re: i think i just made a big mistake starzluv: right now i don't push him away, but the minute the divorce is final, then that's it, he's cut off and i find some "friends".
Re: i think i just made a big mistake starzluv: i think the biggest mistake of my e-mail was letting him know that i know he's been lying about where he's living. not sure why i think it was a mistake, but i do.
Re: i think i just made a big mistake JNA: [quote author=starzluv link=topic=26088.msg248685#msg248685 date=1140989235">
i think the biggest mistake of my e-mail was letting him know that i know he's been lying about where he's living. not sure why i think it was a mistake, but i do.
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It wasn't a mistake...
It was the "right" thing to do
Just make sure you are prepared...
I never had any problems with my ex until I busted her on how she was a cheat...a liar and a fake
She didn't like the "truth"...
My guess is he won't either but you know what
Who cares...You told the truth...
Stay Strong ok
JNA
You did nothing wrong and if he doesn't like it well I think someone said one time...
TOUGH SHIT
Sorry for that...
Re: i think i just made a big mistake starzluv: i know he won't like it. that's why i think it may have been a mistake to put that in. i've caught him in stupid little lies before like when he'd tell me he was working late, and i'd drive over and find him playing video games at a coworkers house. and it would always turn into a fight. it was so stupid cuz all he had to say is hey i'm going to Rs house after work. i might "pout" sometimes, but we never fought about it and when he'd get home things were great. so i know this one could cause a big fight but oh well he brought it on himself when he lied.
Re: i think i just made a big mistake sadgirl951: Well, you made that email knowing those are your true feelings. He should be able to handle that. Just hang up on him if he calls to argue. I mean, he is the one with a new chick, and you handled it as best you could, right? So if he can't take a simple little email, then screw him. You don't need stress like that. Just stick to your guns and stay true to your words. He'll get it eventaully.
Thats my advice. Hope it helps.
LONA
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