Re: Has anyone ever???? JNA: [quote author=LivingANewLife link=topic=26090.msg248674#msg248674 date=1140987343">
JNA,
Thats what I think I did....he use to be all up on me, calling, etc. Then I kinda did that too him to the extreme and I think scared him. But in a sense I used him as I needed him during my roughest months. Now when I did say thanks and I will always remember you being there....he comes back. Its like neither of us really know what we want from the other.LOL I'm trying to take a needed break I guess but when I push away he pulls me back.
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I know the push/pull real well as I was with someone like that...
Maybe you just need to talk and meet in the middle a little bit
If it continues though it indicates a problem with the realtionship in general or a problem with one persons ability to have a "healthy" relationship with someone...
I met someone like that
She was in no way capable of an adult realtionship on any level and it was very dis-heartening to say the least...
Stay Strong ok
JNA
