addicted sadgirlwhyme: My relationship with my ex is an addiction. I dont have other addictions. Its like I am an exaholic! I have withdrawls if I go without him too long.
I am so mad at myself for giving in again and again.
I am tired of his lies.
In the past when I had to breakup with someone I always did it in such a way that they knew it was OVER.
He just always says he is confused, going through a phase and wants to eventually come home to me and be happy again.
I need a 12 step leave me ex for good class!
Today I am sad and mad and I am very down on myself. Sundays are always the worse...
Re: addicted sadgirl951: Aww, sadgirl, I'm sorry today is bad.
We are all here to pick you up.
It's okay to feel angry or down. It's part of the healing process.
Just try to get your mind off your ex. You know, the original kings of comedy just came on comedy central. Laugh your pain away. :-)
That's my lil ol advice. I hope it helps.
take care,
LONA
Re: addicted starzluv: i gotta say i'm an addict too. no matter what i say, i always cave in to him
Re: addicted sadgirl951: It's really hard I know, to pull away. You want to let go but it's hard when they pull you back in.
Your emotions go haywire trying to figure out what you really want.
I'm sorry things are looking down today.
Everything will get better though. For every bad day, there is three times as many good days. Remember that, ok.
take care. ((Hugs))
LONA
Re: addicted sosad05: Its so hard. I too was in the boat of "caving into him" for many many years. Now, its officiallly over and at times I miss him. Sometimes I forget the bad and the bad was horrifying...almost killed me bad. But, you're right...the ex is like a drug....just like coc, meth, alcohol...etc. Its bad for us but we continually go back. The sad thing is that I dont even think there was a "high" with the xh. Its just the withdrawal. And w/d from what????
So, if you figure out the 12-step program, Im in. Im good in that I finally kicked the bad habit...now its a matter of staying focused and not missing it. :-[
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