Re: addicted kev: As a reply to all of you...don't worry about your ex, dont miss them...you are hanging onto dreams of who you thought they could be...dreams of who you wanted them to be....
Here's a better thought...
Dream of who YOU could be...a person with their own dreams and plans...a self centered (not a bad thing) person with their own agenda in their own time...
Ex's drag us down, not because we think of them, but who we thought we could be with them.
The key thing is though...they were ex's....we are moving on as "us". Forget the "us" that we thought was "married us"....the us is now us on a new adventure, us as OJARs trying to move on to a new life.
I hope this helps...
Re: addicted sadgirlwhyme: yeah if I go a few days without seeing him I am ok, then I see him and then its square one, I miss him and feel alone and lost and scared without him.
I think if I did spend a few months without him the feelings would be so raw and vivid.
I just want to be happy and go back to a non-drama filled life.
I want off the emotional rollercoaster for good.
I am moving out April 1st, I got a little house just for me and I am not going to tell him where it is.
Then he will hurt and we will both hurt and I will get over him. :) There my first smile since I have been posting here.
