I can't move on? Amy: Hi everyone
My boyfriend broke up with me 10 months ago and the break up was less amicable. We fought and screamed to one another. I still feel the loss and the pain so much.
What I am wondering is: How long it takes to get over your ex?...Is ten months a short time to heal?...Is there anyone who is going through this for a year or more?...Please help
Do you think that rebound relationship can help you to mend your broken heart?...Or do you think it’s a recipe for disaster?
Some friends, who have been through this, told me that it takes two to three years to heal, if not more. They said if you love the person who broke up with you, you need to prepare for a long journey.
What do you think about this people?
Help…..Thanks in advance.
Re: I can't move on? sadgirl951: Well I think it varies for that ultimate getting over stage.
Time heals all wounds.
Some it takes a few months, some it takes a few years.
No matter how long, you have to stay strong.
For all the bad days, there are three times as many good days to help you move forward to a happier future.
That's my advice though. I hope it helps. Sorry if it didn't.
Take care,
LONA
Re: I can't move on? Josh: All you have to is change your attitude. Is it easy? NO! Its very hard but all of us can do it if we wanted to. You DO NOT want that person any more, he is NOT in love with you and you have to accept that. You have to choose to be with someone who posseses the intergrity and character that you yourself feel to be invaluable and know in your heart and mind that someone who posses such qualities will love you back!
Cheer up and keep a smile on your face, all the time:)
Re: I can't move on? gulfcoast: is that how we fall out of love?
cause I didn't talk myself into love...
time and life and more time
and you silently accept and learn to live again
I don't think it can be forced
Re: I can't move on? Zipsfb: I think it depends on the person, but it is very hard to get over someone. Especially if you really did love them.
Maybe this will help you: My X broke up with me, after cheating on me, but we dated only 19 months. She was my first love and I was fine at the beginning but it just continued and continued. We broke up last June, and it is? Almost March? So I'm pushing 10 months as well and still I have to catch myself thinking about her. Granted it isn't near as much as before, but it is tiresome since I am spending almost the same amount of time getting over the relationship than the actual relationship lasted. So you're not alone.
All I can say is I'm sorry you're feeling this way but I can relate. Feel free to PM me if you need anything, I'm all ears.
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