He had a vasectomy kathlyn2: Ok. So I had been out on a few dates with a guy I'm interested in. But he just kind of dropped off over the last few weeks. Well this weekend I called him and he didnt call back. Ran into him at work this week and he says, "I wasn't ignoring you, but I had surgery on Friday". I ask him if he is ok and he says, "yes, I had a vasectomy!". Ok, no problem.....but now what? does that stop you from calling me back???? Could he have been having some psychological issues associated with a CHOSEN procedure? Do I need to give him some slack for not being around the last couple weeks?
Re: He had a vasectomy dgiirl: euh, i would. Heck, i'm all stressed out on my taxes and there's a few of my friends that i havent called back yet. I'd be a nervous wreck if i had surgery. Things happen and get in the way. From what you write, it seems he's been out for what? two weeks? That's not much time to get upset over. I'd give the guy some slack, give him his space, and if he's interested he'll call you when he's less stressed out.
